• 25
  • January
    2012

Domestic violence is a serious problem that has serious consequences, even death. Domestic violence includes more than just physical abuse - it is often part of one person completely controlling the life of another. And unfortunately, Ohio is seeing more and more of it, including in Canton, Stark County, and Fairfield counties. Lancaster and Hocking counties have recently seen two shootings related to domestic violence.

The reasons behind domestic violence are complex, and usually there is not just one reason for it. However, the presence of certain factors--including alcohol, drug and financial problems--can aggravate a dangerous situation and make it worse.

Sometimes, the signs of abuse are apparent, like the more obvious signs of physical injury (including bruises and more serious injuries like broken bones). Some signs are not as obvious, like emotional turmoil or someone in a relationship being unable to make independent decisions and growing isolated from family and friends because of the abusive person.

Abuse victims must remember that safety is the most important thing to consider when deciding what to do. The typical response to a person suffering through domestic violence is to urge the victim to simply get out of the situation and leave, but in more serious cases, this option may prove to be life-threatening.

Getting out of an abusive relationship is a delicate process that requires taking back power and control over one's own life, and there are resources to help victims of domestic violence regain this control. These resources include counseling, shelters for emergency relocation and legal help. Though the process may be difficult and dangerous, it can be done by taking one step at a time. And sometimes, reaching out for help can be that important first step.

Source: Lancaster Eagle-Gazette, "Domestic violence incidents show no sign of decrease," Jeff Barron, Jan. 15, 2012